Last week, I decided to end my “long distance” relationship with my boyfriend of three years. It wasn’t easy, I cried, I vent to my girlfriends (including my mom) and lost weight (ayyy).
But ending a relationship gives a person to focus on him or herself.
I’ve learned so much about myself and I will continue to love me and grow.
Of course, some nights, I want to call my ex and tell him how much I miss him. How we should “start all over” or just “take a break” but no! If I stick with it and pray for strength, I will move on.
So if you’re reading this and you’re dealing with a breakup remember to stay strong and love yourself. There’s a reason why the relationship ended but whatever the reason is just know you deserve better. Never settle for less than you deserve.
Yes, you will walk down memory lane.
Yes, you will cry at night.
Yes, you will have a little too much to drink and want to call your ex
Yes, you will think about your ex lover every time you walk pass his or her favorite restaurant.
But remember it’s okay! You will get through this. You are beautiful and you will find someone who will love you and ALL of your imperfections.