Should you get back with your ex?


Last week as I was walking home from New York Penn Station I ran into my ex boyfriend of 4 years. At first I did not recognize him but when he waved to me, I said to myself “oh boy, this should be interesting.”

“Michael*, hi how are you?”

“I’m good how are you? You look great!” said Michael

“Aww, really? Thanks” as I took one more look at myself in front of the Macy’s display window.

“Well Michael, I’ll see later; I have to head home”

“Okay, maybe we should have lunch sometime” said Michael.

“Yeah, sure I’ll call you” I said to Michael as I slowly walked away.

When I got home, I thought about ex partners and why they feel the need to reconnect.

As I wrote down 101 reasons why some people shouldn’t reconnect with an ex partner; I stop and thought of reasons why some people do reconnect with an ex and below are those reason. Now I am not encouraging you to get back with your ex; these are just reason why you may want to (based on my research)…Enjoy ❤ 

To get closure 

ImageYou and your former partner may have some “unfinished business”, unanswered questions or need to say final goodbyes. Whatever it is, it’s best to get it out now, without asking yourself ‘what if’? 

To get back together 

Image You may want to get back with your ex or maybe you forgot the reason(s) why you two broke up in the first place. If you want to give it another shot go ahead you never know until you try. 

To get revenge 

Image Sweet revenge: Personally I am not a fan of it, but if you want to make your former partner pay for what s/he done, than by all means. But do not fall for your partners charm, cause you may get hurt again. 

To have sex 


Ex-sex is easy to crawl back to because you know what you’re going to get. It’s something ‘fun’ that you both can enjoy,but use protection cause your ex-partner may have fun with someone else as well. 

Timing is everything


Timing is everything. Maybe you and your former partner weren’t meant to be in a relationship as of it. 



“We’re better off as friends” yeah this phase is a bit cliche but it’s true. 

Need a favor


You never know when you’ll need a helping hand. 

If you have any reasons why you should get back with your ex, please comment below. 



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