Last week as I was walking home from New York Penn Station I ran into my ex boyfriend of 4 years. At first I did not recognize him but when he waved to me, I said to myself “oh boy, this should be interesting.”
“Michael*, hi how are you?”
“I’m good how are you? You look great!” said Michael
“Aww, really? Thanks” as I took one more look at myself in front of the Macy’s display window.
“Well Michael, I’ll see later; I have to head home”
“Okay, maybe we should have lunch sometime” said Michael.
“Yeah, sure I’ll call you” I said to Michael as I slowly walked away.
When I got home, I thought about ex partners and why they feel the need to reconnect.
As I wrote down 101 reasons why some people shouldn’t reconnect with an ex partner; I stop and thought of reasons why some people do reconnect with an ex and below are those reason. Now I am not encouraging you to get back with your ex; these are just reason why you may want to (based on my research)…Enjoy ❤
To get closure
To get back together
To get revenge
Sweet revenge: Personally I am not a fan of it, but if you want to make your former partner pay for what s/he done, than by all means. But do not fall for your partners charm, cause you may get hurt again.
To have sex
Ex-sex is easy to crawl back to because you know what you’re going to get. It’s something ‘fun’ that you both can enjoy,but use protection cause your ex-partner may have fun with someone else as well.
Timing is everything
Timing is everything. Maybe you and your former partner weren’t meant to be in a relationship as of it.
“We’re better off as friends” yeah this phase is a bit cliche but it’s true.
Need a favor
You never know when you’ll need a helping hand.
If you have any reasons why you should get back with your ex, please comment below.